
About Us
We are a monthly meet-up where couples & unicorns (single ladies, including trans) meet regularly to share a drink, socialize, and have a great time meeting others in the adult lifestyle.
Our group is changing regularly, including recently spinning up a Discord Server for members to remain connected. 😈
Learn more about how to get started with Discord.
What We Do
Meet
We meet each other monthly for a cocktail party at a local bar or restaurant.
Mingle
Whether via a quick game or just naturally, we all end up meeting new people.
Connect
Not everyone ends up as play partners, but we all end up becoming friends.

What to Expect
Every month is different. People who show up one month may not be there next month, and vice-versa.
🚫Single Men🚫 without a partner present are NOT welcome & will be banned from future events.
Dress Code: Classy and casual—blend in with the venue’s regular crowd.
Venue Etiquette: This is not a play party. Please keep conversations discreet and respectful, as the bar hosts a variety of patrons (but we'll be in our own area).
(Optional) Support the Venue: The venue isn’t charging us to host this event, so we encourage everyone to purchase at least one beverage to show our appreciation.
Upon entering the venue, you'll find our seating area immediately on the left of the entry. Feel free to grab a drink at the bar if you want, then sit with us.

Why Attend?
Many events like this require crossing bridges or traveling far distances. Finally, there’s a local option for those of us in the Peninsula who want to connect & build community.
Whether you're looking for new play partners, or friends to discuss our unique challenges & experiences with, you'll find a new group of people at each event to connect with.
When you build community, you build the foundation to have a lot more opportunity for learning new things to do, make new friends/play partners, and plan/have experiences you never thought you might otherwise.
Also, we're all better in person. Let's skip the never-ending chat messages here and see if there's chemistry with others in a real place, like people used to do. 😎